The War We Carry – When the Battle Moves Inside
This blog introduces the unseen war many trauma survivors fight long after the physical battlefield is gone. It’s a powerful, personal look into the silent struggle of PTSD, moral injury, and survivor’s guilt—and the hope that posttraumatic growth makes possible.
THE WAR WE CARRY
Andrew J. Cox, MA, CEM
6/1/20251 min read


The War We Carry – When the Battle Moves Inside
You don’t have to wear a uniform to carry the weight of war.
For some of us, the explosions are over. The sirens have stopped. The paperwork has been filed. And still… the war rages on.
Inside.
The Unseen Battle
PTSD isn’t always loud.
Sometimes it’s the silence that’s the loudest thing in the room.
It’s the startle at a slammed door. The shame that creeps in at 3 a.m. The way your body tenses when you hear the word “safe.” The fact that you haven’t truly felt safe in years.
And it’s not just veterans or first responders. It’s survivors of childhood trauma, toxic relationships, moral injury, or grief that never found a resting place.
When You Can’t Just “Move On”
There’s this myth that healing means forgetting. That if enough time passes, you’ll magically feel better.
But trauma doesn’t work like that.
When the nervous system is hijacked, the mind loops, and the soul questions everything—you don’t need time. You need tools. You need a roadmap. You need someone who’s been through it and won’t flinch when you say the thing you’ve never said out loud.
There’s a Way Out—But It’s Through
This blog is the first step in a bigger series: The War We Carry.
It’s about PTSD, yes—but also about healing. Growth. Power. Perspective. It’s about what happens when the battle moves inside, and what it looks like to fight back in a different way.
Because while trauma may leave its mark, it doesn’t get to keep the pen.
You do.
If you're carrying the weight of something no one else sees, you're not alone. This series is for you. And when you're ready to take that first step—we're here.